Friday, April 16, 2010
Right choice??
Hello. I was thinking that day about my blog,if you can even call it that....originally,I intended for this blog to be an average 15 year old girl's blog. Well.....didn't excatly go that way,it was supposed to be a picture filled,minimum words kind of blog. Here's 2 reasons why that didn't happen: 1.I don't know how to upload photos onto the blog(don't laugh), 2.I can't help writing on and on. So,there. oh,just so you know....just because i write on and on doesn't mean i'm talkative although there are a few people who would beg to differ. You might think I'm just an empty vessel and maybe I am but who isn't? Don't answer that. And my insights of the day isn't exactly Haruki Murakami or Paulo Coelho,neither is it Plato or Socrates. Actually,its far from that level. What I mean to say is that those are just what my views are and they are not to be taken seriously. Since I'm talking about my insights,I want to ask if the choices you make are all worth it? Some people do what think is the right thing to do but is there really such a thing as a right thing? You might think its selfish doing what you want rather than doing whats expected of you. Where do you draw the line between your morals and what feels right? The truth is,the choice you made led you to this choice. One choice doesn't affect your whole life but it affects the other choices you are forced to make. Makes sense? no? Well.....doesn't really make sense to me too. Anyway, Exhibit A. A young woman who's a real social butterfly one day isn't sure she wants to lead this life forever. She sees her friends all settling down and growing up. She'e envious and wants the same things. One day,she meets a typical nice guy,responsible and ready for family life. Boy meets girl.Girl meet boy.They fall in love and get hitched. The first few months are married bliss for her. They are over the moon when she gets pregnant. After a few years of playing house,reality sets in for her. She misses her old life and wants it back. She goes out partying and comes back late. Her dutiful husband runs the household by himself all the while without complaining. One day,she meets a new guy and she falls in love with him. Together,they run away. She divorces her husbands and abandons her kids. Do you think she made the right choice? There really is no such a thing,is there? If she didn't have kids,the casualties would be less. If she only married when she was ready,this wouldn't have happened. But then,her children woudn't have existed. When we make choices,there's not really a right or wrong. There's lessons and pain and also joy and wonder. So,we make choices.
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